No label. No lecture. No forever promise.
Press Pause 90 is for men and women aged 30 to 55 who are still working, still parenting and still holding life together — but privately know drinking is taking more than it gives.
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Work gets done. The kids get to school. Bills get paid. From the outside, everything looks fine.
But you know.
The mornings are heavier than they used to be. Sleep is broken. Sundays keep disappearing. Your patience is thinner. You're in the room with your family, but not really there.
And you keep having the same conversation with yourself about drinking.
Then the rule changes. The week moves on. And alcohol stays in the middle of the conversation.
You've probably already tried cutting down. You've negotiated days, numbers, weekends, occasions and exceptions.
The problem is that even when you're trying to control drinking, drinking is still taking up space in your head.
Press Pause 90 removes the negotiation for 90 days.
No forever decision. No new identity. Just enough distance to find out what your life actually feels like without alcohol running the diary.
A structured 90-day alcohol-free coaching programme with me in your corner.
You are not signing up to “never again”. You are signing up to do 90 days properly.
Book Your Power HourIf you're seriously considering working with me, this is the next step.
Before that, I drank daily for years. I worked. I parented. I kept life moving. From the outside, mostly fine.
Privately, alcohol was taking my sleep, my energy, my mornings, my patience, my fitness, my self-respect and my presence with the people closest to me.
I didn't decide to stop forever. Forever was too big.
I pressed pause for 90 days. Those 90 days became a year. The year became ten.
I'm not asking you to copy my ending. I'm asking you to give yourself enough distance to see what comes back.
I wrote the whole story down. I Believe In You: a father's journey from daily drinker to redefining himself. Every step of it, including the parts that weren't pretty.
If you want the full version before you decide anything, start there.
Buy the book on Amazon“I came to Karl to deal with alcohol. What I didn't expect was how much it opened up everything else. Working with Karl helped me understand there were other areas of my life I'd been ignoring. He helped me with those too. It wasn't just about drinking. It was about becoming a better version of me.”
Bee, mum of two, UK
“I started thinking this was just a 30-day break. Karl's experience and the way he works made me realise I could go so much further. I'm now 4 stone lighter and competing in triathlons with my son. I wouldn't have believed that was possible when we first spoke.”
Ken, 65, United States
“Working with Karl gave me the confidence to face something I'd been scared of. Being alcohol-free isn't a stigma anymore. It's something I'm genuinely proud of. Karl helped me see it that way.”
Tom, 35, UK
Press Pause 90 Private
Payment plan available.
I'm not asking you to buy £1,997 of coaching cold from a web page.
If you're serious about changing this, book the Power Hour. We'll talk through your situation properly and decide whether working together makes sense.
Book Your Power HourI'm currently building the evergreen Press Pause 90 group option. It is not open for direct purchase yet.
If the group is the route you're interested in, email me and I'll let you know when it's ready.
Email Karl About The GroupThe glass while cooking. The reward after work. The point where the rule you made in the morning starts moving. We plan for that moment before it arrives.
The pub, dinner, a work event, football, friends. You don't hide from your life. We decide how you're handling it before you walk through the door.
That's fine. This is your pause, not theirs. You don't need the whole house to stop drinking for you to do this.
If you wobble, you don't disappear and start again next month. We look at what happened, adjust the plan and carry on.
Press Pause 90 is not suitable for anyone who may be physically dependent on alcohol.
If you drink in the morning to feel steady, shake or sweat when you haven't had a drink, have had withdrawal symptoms before, or are worried about stopping safely, speak with your GP or another suitable medical professional before changing your drinking.
I'm a coach and mentor, not a medical professional. If that applies to you, the right first step is medical support, not a coaching payment.
No. Press Pause 90 is 90 days. On day 91, you decide what happens next.
This is built for people who are still functioning but privately know drinking is taking more than it gives.
It is a real conversation about what's happening, what you want to change and whether Press Pause 90 is a sensible fit. If it isn't, I'll tell you. There is no obligation to join anything.
Yes, subject to availability. The Power Hour is the first step so we can make sure the programme is right for you before you pay.
Not yet. I'm currently building the evergreen group version so the community and support are properly in place before I open direct purchase.
If you're tired of waking up making one decision and watching it change as the day goes on, start with a conversation with me.
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